Stagnancy breeds complacency and complacency breeds contempt.
Sometimes the power of a person is just not enough to change everything.
There are certain things in the place of work which bounds to make you feel upset and unwarranted of the hard work that you put in.
There are some things which once done is just like opening a can of worms.
Passionate about being in the service front, i reckon the tacit knowledge which i have acquire do help me in many ways.
I demand a lot from myself as well as the fellow colleagues around me. However demand isn't sufficient to get things done. Demanding leads to unhappiness, however a tactful manner of encouraging and motivating generate better results. How much can you motivate when mostly it is intrinsic motivation that drives you forward rather than extrinsic motivation. If one isn't in the right frame of mind to make things work how much can i motivate him to be better. The effect of extrinsic motivation will certainly wear off after some time.
It is out of convenience for most people to just say 'I don't know', 'I can't', 'i am incapable', 'this is not the right time' or whatever reasons they can mention just to shift the responsibility. We encounter such behaviour in all form of human relationships. Be it at work, your friends or the one you love.
I succumb to such behaviours at times too and i am not trying to take the moral high ground however i try to take ownership of whatever problems that i encounter.
Simply knowing that problems will still arise if we fail to rectify it maybe not now but certainly in future.
It is draining when you wish to solve an issue or to make things better but the other counterpart just shrink and refuse to compromise or presume everything is fine.
I will keep trying. Definitely,in all aspects of my life. Hopefully my effort will prevail one day.
I need a fresh change in most aspects of my life.
Walking away isn't a bad choice sometimes and i am seriously contemplating.
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